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WHEN I STOPPED LOOKING LEFT OR RIGHT, MY BUSINESS FINALLY FELT LIKE me

One day, nearly 5 years ago now, I made the decision to stop playing by the "rules" and it changed everything for me. After years of trying to do all the right things that didn't feel like me at all, I leaned in to what I was truly passionate about, listened to my heart instead of the industry – and now I want to help you do the same.

I know "do your own thing" is much easier said than done. And a thing I've learned was that we don't have to do this alone. Going my own way, doesn't mean that I have to do it all by myself. But instead of buying into cookie cutter solutions and one-size-fits-all programs, I started working with professionals who have helped understand my own strengths, highlight my differences, and intuitively build the business and brand I am proud to call my own today.

KUVIA

 

MY BEGINNINGS

 

Back in 2017 I was three years into my full-time photography journey, but I was lightyears away from where I am today. I shot at low prices, was unhappy with the results of my work, felt drained and unhappy. My clients back then loved my work, but I hated it. It didn’t represent me - just the industry. The trendy poses, props and fake smiles. All of it was pretty, but it simply wasn’t me at all. The “dream business” was starting to feel like a nightmare I couldn’t get out of.

 

THE TURNING POINT

 

I finally realised that I needed to quit or make a massive change. And so I decided to start from scratch. I found what my style is, how I wanted to work and who my dream clients were – and I built everything else around that. I realised that in some way, intuitively, I had always known what I wanted – I just hadn’t allowed myself to really think about it. And you know what? What I did, actually worked. I suddenly found myself getting booked for dream shoots by dream clients at dream prices.

 

TODAY

 

My style now is a mixture of super simple Scandinavian minimalism and timeless neutrality. All I need to shoot is a simple location that helps the connection between my clients take centerstage. The experience I offer my clients is what's most important to me. And all of it is planned from my imagination and intuition, mapped out and built over years. I didn’t look left and right, only inwards and ahead. And that feels great.

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HOW TO PREPARE A NATURAL and EASY STUDIO SHOOT FOR A NEWBORN FAMILY

IT'S NOT WHAT WE SEE BUT how WE FEEL

 

I've built my session flow and client experience in natural, baby-led newborn photogrpahy based on the needs I have as a photographer but mostly what I would have needed as a newborn mom. I want everything to be easy and relaxing for the new family and our time together as precious as I can ever it make.

I want my moms to feel they are the only moms I work with. I want them to feel that they are doing everything perfectly fine and right (as they are) and that the shoot with me is the best investment a family can do with their time and money in the first few weeks with a baby.

This is how I've designed the whole experience:

BEFORE THE SHOOT

Before the shoot I'm sending the tangible preparation guide to the family via post. The guide includes tips on what to wear, how to prepare the baby for the shoot and where to park the car. In my client experience some things simply can't be digital, no matter how easy it would be to just send a pdf. I love the feel of a quality print in front of me – and I know my clients do too. I'm also sending for the family a questionnaire where they can share their journey and thoughts with me.

Before the family arrives to the studio I warm up the place and prepare the beanbag. I use a very basic beanbag with average amount of filling and some posing beans (from The original photoblocks) if needed.

I pick of some yummy pastries like cinnamon buns or freshly baked croissants with a delicious coffee the family can enjoy right after they arrive at the studio.

I love to light some scented candle or other air scents (lavender is great for better sleeps wink wink!) to create a multi-sensory, memorable experience. To make the family feel at home it's also great to play some lovely background music (make an own Spotify list that your clients can cherish later too!).

But the main thing I do to keep my clients at ease is to prepare and inform them. They should know 100% what to expect from the day. I share as much information on my website and social media, they receive the guide and I walk them through the process. But I also let them know that whenever they have questions, I'm here. And that is key to a relaxed, beautiful studio experience.


DURING THE SHOOT

My biggest aim during the shoot is to make the mom feel as good as ever possible. When the family arrives to studio, I take the baby and the parents can have a peaceful moment with their coffee cup and some snacks. The kind of peaceful moment they often haven't had since their little one was born and they've started life as a new family. 

I prepare the baby for the shoot, no matter if we are using a body or a wrap. I change the diaper  and wrap the baby on my lap before moving them to the beanbag. I always start a shoot with the baby only, so the parents can catch their breath after a busy morning (leaving home for the first time with a newborn is a sport!). 

In keeping with my nordic, natural style I use very neutral tones on my wraps and blankets and ask the family also to wear some light shades. The baby's skin is so delicate that it loves to have light and neutrals around it in pictures. I observe how the parents hold the baby during transtitions and then naturally to pose them in the same way, so that being in front of the camera feels more natural to them.

While shooting, I'm guiding the family, helping them "pose", but also capture those beautiful moments in between when they're at their most natural. I'm guiding them with words and directing with hands. I'm talking to the family the way they can easily dive into that very moment; "look, now he's here!", "this is the moment we have been waiting for".

I make sure to put the camera down every now and then to just check how everyone is feeling; if the mom is feeling good, are the postures okay for her and does she want to drink something. 

Before saying goodbye, I make sure to tell the family exactly what happens after. How soon can they expect the images. How do they receive them, etc.

AFTER THE SHOOT

After the shoot family gets a slideshow of all the images with an emotional soundtrack. Families love that, it somehow ties together the whole experience and reminds us what are the most important things in life. I send the slideshow to the family within 2 weeks from the shoot.

IMPORTANT! If I cannot promise that I will be able to stick to this schedule, I rather say 3 weeks. Part of going above and beyond for a client is to always over-deliver on promises. This means always delivering images at least 1-3 days before I promised them.

After seeing the slideshow I send the full image gallery. I only offer full galleries. My clients don't want to choose. They want them all. I also offer optional viewing sessions in the studio to help my families order art for their walls or albums to their coffee table

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HOW I FIND BALANCE AS A PHOTOGRAPHER, BUSINESS OWNER AND MOM OF THREE

Some years ago the thought of running my own business seemed like a dream. Being able to work according to MY schedule, not having to please a demanding boss, taking breaks whenever I want to – what an amazing thought! Of course, once I was in the thick of it, I realised quickly that running a business was hard work and that I am in fact the most demanding boss I could ever have.

I constantly had the feeling that I’m never doing enough. The feeling that something or someone; time, client, other photographer, style, momentum would drive past me and leave me standing alone on that bus stop. And in my mind that would have been the last bus.

There was always a pile of work that I couldn’t solve, always a need to work a bit more. When one’s having such an inspiring job & working ”for myself” there is always a reason to work a bit more. There is always a reason to do ”just a quick editing” cause it’s fun and doesn’t feel like true work feels - heavy.

So basically I lived through that joke about switching 9am-5pm work to 247 work. I’m sure so many photographer still do.

 

KUVA 

 

Some years ago the thought of running my own business seemed like a dream. Being able to work according to MY schedule, not having to please a demanding boss, taking breaks whenever I want to – what an amazing thought! Of course, once I was in the thick of it, I realised quickly that running a business was hard work and that I am in fact the most demanding boss I could ever have.

I constantly had the feeling that I’m never doing enough. The feeling that something or someone; time, client, other photographer, style, momentum would drive past me and leave me standing alone on that bus stop. And in my mind that would have been the last bus.

There was always a pile of work that I couldn’t solve, always a need to work a bit more. When one’s having such an inspiring job & working ”for myself” there is always a reason to work a bit more. There is always a reason to do ”just a quick editing” cause it’s fun and doesn’t feel like true work feels - heavy.

So basically I lived through that joke about switching 9am-5pm work to 247 work. I’m sure so many photographer still do.

 

KUVA

I started to switch my business more towards that dream I had. I refined my style, created a working model that fits for me - babies during winter and families at summer time. I up leveled everything, started to charge what I needed to afford that life I wanted and what my work and time was worth. I stopped working in the evenings and nights and for a moment, every now and then, had the feeling of nailing it all.

Then my husband moved to Denmark for 8 months and I needed not only to take care of kids & the house but run a business too (I had booked 40 shoots in 2 months 380 kilometers away from where we live). And cause my life seemed to fall apart at that very moment I decided that I could manage solve this problem we all have: The problem about being enough.

My very extensive mission was to solve the problematic dilemma between family and work. I was sure there must be that one effective way to be creatively productive AF for a couple of hours a day and then the peace of mind arrives and we can have a joyful leisure time with our family without losing ourselves in thoughts about the work.

KUVIA

Some years ago the thought of running my own business seemed like a dream. Being able to work according to MY schedule, not having to please a demanding boss, taking breaks whenever I want to – what an amazing thought! Of course, once I was in the thick of it, I realised quickly that running a business was hard work and that I am in fact the most demanding boss I could ever have.

I constantly had the feeling that I’m never doing enough. The feeling that something or someone; time, client, other photographer, style, momentum would drive past me and leave me standing alone on that bus stop. And in my mind that would have been the last bus.

There was always a pile of work that I couldn’t solve, always a need to work a bit more. When one’s having such an inspiring job & working ”for myself” there is always a reason to work a bit more. There is always a reason to do ”just a quick editing” cause it’s fun and doesn’t feel like true work feels - heavy.

So basically I lived through that joke about switching 9am-5pm work to 247 work. I’m sure so many photographer still do.

I started to switch my business more towards that dream I had. I refined my style, created a working model that fits for me - babies during winter and families at summer time. I up leveled everything, started to charge what I needed to afford that life I wanted and what my work and time was worth. I stopped working in the evenings and nights and for a moment, every now and then, had the feeling of nailing it all.

Then my husband moved to Denmark for 8 months and I needed not only to take care of kids & the house but run a business too (I had booked 40 shoots in 2 months 380 kilometers away from where we live). And cause my life seemed to fall apart at that very moment I decided that I could manage solve this problem we all have: The problem about being enough.

 My very extensive mission was to solve the problematic dilemma between family and work. I was sure there must be that one effective way to be creatively productive AF for a couple of hours a day and then the peace of mind arrives and we can have a joyful leisure time with our family without losing ourselves in thoughts about the work.

KUVA

 

In all my scenarios the key was doing more. Like there must be something wrong with me because I’m not effective enough. 

If I just wake up at 5 instead of 6. 
If I just start doing morning yoga or meditation. 
If I just prepare all the meals on Sunday. 
If I just exercise more so I would get more energy. 
If I just stop eating sugars.
If I just...

And burnout. Small (did I have a choice; kids & business), but still a burnout. It started with stress symptoms and aches all over the body and I understood the biggest lesson about the balance at that time.

The more I thought of that mindfuck of efficiency, the less I could create (or do nothing else either). The more I wanted to find that theory and style that actually would work, the farther I ended up.

But the time and managing it isn't possible the way I dreamed. Perfectly and without loopholes. The more effective one becomes, the more there is work to do. Things take their time to happen, and for me not to admit that caused an illusion of failing time after time. Even if I wasn't failing, I just wasn't that efficient that, ina dream world, someone could have been.

Spoiler alert: There is no key, there is now a pattern with what you could make it all. There is no solution. There is only time we can use at something, not everything.

 

KUVA

 

Some years ago the thought of running my own business seemed like a dream. Being able to work according to MY schedule, not having to please a demanding boss, taking breaks whenever I want to – what an amazing thought! Of course, once I was in the thick of it, I realised quickly that running a business was hard work and that I am in fact the most demanding boss I could ever have.

I constantly had the feeling that I’m never doing enough. The feeling that something or someone; time, client, other photographer, style, momentum would drive past me and leave me standing alone on that bus stop. And in my mind that would have been the last bus.

There was always a pile of work that I couldn’t solve, always a need to work a bit more. When one’s having such an inspiring job & working ”for myself” there is always a reason to work a bit more. There is always a reason to do ”just a quick editing” cause it’s fun and doesn’t feel like true work feels - heavy.

So basically I lived through that joke about switching 9am-5pm work to 247 work. I’m sure so many photographer still do.

KUVIA

 

I started to switch my business more towards that dream I had. I refined my style, created a working model that fits for me - babies during winter and families at summer time. I up leveled everything, started to charge what I needed to afford that life I wanted and what my work and time was worth. I stopped working in the evenings and nights and for a moment, every now and then, had the feeling of nailing it all.

Then my husband moved to Denmark for 8 months and I needed not only to take care of kids & the house but run a business too (I had booked 40 shoots in 2 months 380 kilometers away from where we live). And cause my life seemed to fall apart at that very moment I decided that I could manage solve this problem we all have: The problem about being enough.

 My very extensive mission was to solve the problematic dilemma between family and work. I was sure there must be that one effective way to be creatively productive AF for a couple of hours a day and then the peace of mind arrives and we can have a joyful leisure time with our family without losing ourselves in thoughts about the work.

KUVA

In all my scenarios the key was doing more. Like there must be something wrong with me because I’m not effective enough. 

If I just wake up at 5 instead of 6. 
If I just start doing morning yoga or meditation. 
If I just prepare all the meals on Sunday. 
If I just exercise more so I would get more energy. 
If I just stop eating sugars.
If I just...

And burnout. Small (did I have a choice; kids & business), but still a burnout. It started with stress symptoms and aches all over the body and I understood the biggest lesson about the balance at that time.

The more I thought of that mindfuck of efficiency, the less I could create (or do nothing else either). The more I wanted to find that theory and style that actually would work, the farther I ended up.

But the time and managing it isn't possible the way I dreamed. Perfectly and without loopholes. The more effective one becomes, the more there is work to do. Things take their time to happen, and for me not to admit that caused an illusion of failing time after time. Even if I wasn't failing, I just wasn't that efficient that, ina dream world, someone could have been.

Spoiler alert: There is no key, there is now a pattern with what you could make it all. There is no solution. There is only time we can use at something, not everything.



But that's the thing in balance. To survive as a mom, a photographer and a business owner (yes, being a photographer and a business owner are two very different, separate jobs) losing control of time (aaand pretty much everything) is the key.

I ended up seeing the success in today instead of in the future. Giving up that complex about the perfect moment in the future when we are READY when we have done everything, the house is clean, and nothing stops us is bliss. That time won't come. Let me tell you that.

To me, accepting that is the key to everyday success. I do what I can in a day for my own and others' happiness, and that's enough. And I get so much more done from acceptance than in pushing mode.

Then how I balance, otherwise than accept the limits of me, time and universe?

I've created a business that fits to my life not the other way around. I can have pauses during the days; lunch breaks, pilates or just a cosy moment with my hubby and Netflix. I travel to my studio for days but then I'm usually at home when the kiddos come back home from school.

Balance for me is that I can manage my days and rely on the business that I've built - both as a brand and also economically. 

Oh, isn't that a bit like the dream I had years ago?

I just didn't see the way how I would end up here. Instead of that things would have just clicked that way I needed to go the long run and experience my own struggles with not being even close enough with my expectations.

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